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Training for Bishops by Maurice Harker

Today Maurice Harker (Sons of Helaman) blogged that he’s doing some training for bishops soon. Although it is geared toward interviewing young men, I think a lot of what he suggests still applies to when bishops interview adult men. I … Continue reading

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Who Will Speak for the Children Full Version

I’ve been a bit slow at getting this posted, but here it is!  Who Will Speak for the Children is a great resource for giving you the background and mindset of those in the pornography industry as well as for … Continue reading

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Shamed: Hope

Watch this latest Shamed clip to find out what life can be like once you give up your addiction.  You don’t have to live two lives, you can be open, your relationships will improve, you can help others, your burden … Continue reading

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Shamed: Healing

Here’s another clip from Shamed about healing; however, in my opinion, it may be even more about not judging.  We all need to be known and loved, not judged!  We all need forgiveness. If you can, please donate to further … Continue reading

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Who Will Speak for the Children?

A few years ago I received a copy of Who Will Speak for the Children (talk on CD) by JoAnn Hibbert Hamilton.  I found it very insightful in regards to understanding the culture of those in the porn industry.  I also … Continue reading

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Stay within the Lines

I’ve seen this clip, Stay within the Lines, floating around on Facebook recently and finally took a moment to watch it.  It was wonderful (it was so good I felt bad for the young actor and his “sins”!).  It’s geared … Continue reading

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Shamed: Harmless Fun

Check out this segment from Shamed with the creators of Fight the New Drug about how pornography is not harmless fun.  They talk a little bit about how addiction happens and how it affects our relationships.  My favorite line was … Continue reading

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Shamed: Shame vs. Guilt

Watch this two minute clip from Shamed defining the difference between shame versus guilt.  Guilt is when we feel bad about something we do; shame is when we internalize the bad things we do and think of ourselves as a … Continue reading

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Shamed: Perfectionism

Here’s another clip (2 minutes) from Shamed about perfectionism vs. high standards. When kids (I think we can say all of us here) feel like perfection is expected, they’re more likely to compartmentalize and deny misbehaviors. However, if high standards are … Continue reading

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Shamed: Disclosure

Watch this clip from Shamed about a pastor who was able to change once he started telling people about his problem. Please donate if you can.

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