Geoff Steurer, licensed marriage and family therapist, and director of LifeStar of St. George, talks about some of the reasons the early stages of recovery for couples affected by pornography often face a crisis period. What can each person in the relationship do to help contribute to the process of providing a foundation of some comfort and security to help start a process of recovery? For couples who choose to commit to recovery and try to work on the marriage, Geoff has some advice:
Geoff also has a great two-part series about how healing can happen later in the marriage. It’s all a process, a three-legged stool as Geoff calls it. There are three recoveries — his recovery, her recovery, their recovery (again, if they choose to stay together).